OVer the RaInBoW

me n happiness

i keepm saying that i want to be a happier person,but turns out,nothing is working...just saying would not work.laughing makes me feel better,but when i don't feel like it and have to force one out,it would not be the same....i realised then that my problem lies with being too paranoid about minor stuffs,like for example,when i can't find the cd in which my work is in,i would panic,get frustrated and thats it my whole day is ruined...when there is actually a solution to the problem,burn another one la....see its just this minor stuffs,and how i "blow a storm in a teacup",and stupidly made it ruin my day...i want to try look more at the bright side from now on...correct my mistakes(being paranoid la..),yup....there bound to be stuffs in our lives that meke us frustrated and mad,but i guess we should try to "kan kai yi dian"...if its a problem that makes me frustrated,try to solve it,but if i can't,then can't help it la..just leave it...we may be able to learn something from this.....yup.....heh heh i 'm feeling better already.... :) i also realised that hating someone requires lots of energy,and a complete waste of time....why ?i mean would you rather pend your time something more useful rather than spend it by moaning about this particular person,who probably doesn't care at all...besides why waste your energy,getting mad about this person you are having so much negative thoughts of....thats why its best to forgive and forget( i know its an old fashion phrase,but its very true okay....haha)
hating someone is so tiring lor....hahaha speaking singlish sia....okay..anyway...
yup these are actaully common sense theories that we hear every day..but then to be able to do it(for myself)i think its a different thing..oh well at least i learned..hahaha...

posted by iRiS2U @ 12:09 AM